• Kanban in the Bedroom: A Better Sex Life Through Organization

    Kanban is a methodology that focuses on process efficiencies in manufacturing. Some know it better as the “Toyota Production System” made famous by Taiichi Ohno. The basic idea is that you can gain efficiencies through a pull system that is organized by cards or other visual markers to control the flow of work in a system. While having its roots in manufacturing, the system has seen wide adoption in software engineering and is considered by many to be a very good system to aid in getting projects completed efficiently with the least amount of stress on workers.

    Well, that’s great but what does that have to do with sex? In our humble opinion, a lot! Americans are not having as much sex as they used to despite the significant positive physical and emotional benefits it offers. Take a gander at the subreddit /r/deadbedrooms which has over 203k subscribers, to get an idea of bad the situation is. We know anecdotally that sex generally dies down the longer the relationship lasts. The limerence just dies away for most people and that, as far as the researchers tell us, is quite normal. But to the sexually minded, there seems to more to the problem:

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  • Body Image and Penis Size in the Swinger Lifestyle

    We see it all the time in posts to Reddit and other lifestyle forums:

    • Am I hot enough to be a swinger?
    • I’m a BBW, will I get any action?
    • We are 55+, and have trouble attracting partners.
    • I was rejected because my penis is too small…and I’m average size.

    Body image is a tough enough issue in everyday life but dealing with it in the lifestyle is another beast entirely. As with vanilla life, media and marketing are some of the biggest problems here. From swinger sites and profiles to lifestyle takeover advertisements to house party digital flyers, they all seem to show only the most attractive among us. Take a look at this screenshot from Kasidie’s Parties list:

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  • The Struggles of Finding Quality Single Men In the Lifestyle

    This post may be a little ranty so you have been warned.

    One of the most interesting paradoxes of the hotwife lifestyle is the search for single males. Objectively speaking, this really shouldn’t be a problem, and personal standards notwithstanding, it isn’t. There are plenty of guys out there willing to meet up at almost any location to get some free pussy. However, most couples have at least a modicum of decency standards and some that we have seen, ourselves included, have rather high standards stemming from a multitude of perspectives like looks, personality, attitude, hygiene, profession, education, penis size, etc.

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